Sound familiar?
You're not broken. You've probably tried a lot. What most people haven't tried is looking inward.
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You want something and don't know how to ask for it.
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The same conflict keeps showing up, with the people closest to you or with yourself.
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You've tried solutions (therapy, medication, books, new people) and the problem is still there.
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You want real connection and keep ending up in the same place.
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You're clear online, but unsure where to start with real people.
Here's what most of my clients found, usually after trying everything else: the change they wanted didn't come from outside. It came from learning to see themselves clearly, their sexual body, their relationships, their identity, and how they express all of it. That self-awareness changed what they did next, and what they did next changed their lives. If you're ready to find out what that looks like for you, apply.
You don't have to figure this out alone.
I'm here to help you get unstuck.
My approach to sexuality is holisitic: I consider the body, mind, society, culture, and spirit.
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Sensuality: body image, self-esteem, comfort in your own skin, pleasure and sensation; knowing what you actually enjoy and learning to ask for and receive it.
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Intimacy: relationships, communication, trust, vulnerability, boundaries and conflict; negotiation, consent, aftercare, with a partner, partners and in community.
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Sexual Identity: who you are, your attractions and desires, gender identity, gender roles, gender/sex; what your play means to you and how it fits who you are.
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Sexual Health: safety and wellbeing, informed choices, anatomy and physiology, pain-free sex, comfort and discomfort; risk-aware practice and getting the care you need.
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Sexualization: how power and desire shape the way we treat ourselves and others; power dynamics, ethics and values, sexual expression with respect and clarity.
In each of these, the work starts with understanding how you relate to it.
Personalized Strategy
We center your goals and stay focused on the outcomes.
Supportive & Confidential
Judgment-free space for you to express your authenticity without fear or shame.
PhD Expertise
University trained. 20+ years experience, academic research, and community practice.
Practical Tools
Actionable techniques, exercises, and information to apply right away.
How We Work Together
Step 1
Tell me what your goals are and how ready you are to get to work.
Apply.
Step 2
We talk in a video call to see if we're a mutual fit. I only take on people I'm confident I can help.
Check the Fit.
Step 3
Together we choose the right program and level of support to get you started feeling better.
Begin the Journey.
My Help Hits Different
My skills, my experience, and my approach are unmatched.
Many of my clients already had a therapist, a doctor, or other support, and still felt stuck until we started to work together. Most helping professionals don't have the knowledge and skills to work with sexual challenges. I've made my career filling that gap for 20+ years. I don't hand you a fix. I help you build deep self-awareness about your sexuality: where the struggle began, how it works in you, and what you can change. Then we turn that into action.
Get Ready for Your Future
Real change takes effort, and it's absolutely possible. Here's what it asks of you:
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Make it a priority. Change happens when it gets real space in your life, not just leftover time.
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Invest in it. Put real time and resources behind the change you want, and it comes faster.
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Be honest with yourself. Get ready to look at what you want and what's been in the way.
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Picture what's possible. Deeper connection, more confidence, and a life that actually fits you.
No one can do the looking for you. I guide you, and you do the work.
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