You've tried everything. Ready to look at the one place you haven't? Real change starts with self-awareness, and the right community and the right guide help you build it.
Most people start in the same places: another expert, another fix, another attempt to change someone else. Almost no one starts at the mirror. But looking inside and developing real self-awareness about your sexuality is what makes new action possible, and new action is what unlocks the change you're ready for. Here are the three steps.
Step 1: Start with the free guide
Not sure where to start, or worried about doing it safely? This free guide gives you a shame-free roadmap into kink, BDSM, and pup play, so you can decide what you actually want.
25 things you MUST know before getting into Kink and Puppy Play.
No pressure. No judgment. Just guidance.
Self-awareness starts with understanding the basics of your own sexuality.
Step 2: Find your people
Cooper's Den is a shame-free space to connect with others who are serious about growing and doing it in community.
Exclusive content
Packed with wisdom, encouragement and advice from peers and Cooper, to ease your worries and start embarking on this thrilling journey.
Member perks
Get access to events and members-only time with Cooper, in a space where people take their growth and supporting one another seriously.
Q&A
Get support with your fears, concerns, and uncertainties, with peer support and my professional guidance along the way.
Step 3: Work with me.
I'm ready to go deep with you. You've probably already tried therapy, medication, books, or waiting for things (or people) to change, and you still feel stuck. Often what's missing isn't another fix from the outside. It's a deep understanding of your own sexuality: where the struggle comes from, and what you have the power to change.
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My coaching builds that self-awareness, then turns it into action: in how you relate to your sexual body, your relationships, your identity, and how you express all of them. It's only a good fit for people who are ready to look honestly at themselves and invest in the work.
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One-on-one programs are by application only. When you apply, I'll reach out to set up a time to talk.
Not ready to apply yet?
Start with the free guide: 25 things you MUST know before getting into Kink and Puppy Play. Then come back when you're ready to look inward and do the work.